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Posted by A.J. Mahari on January 2, 2008 · Leave a Comment
In life there are many crossroads. There is not one major intersection of choice. There is rarely only one right way for most things in life to unfold or come to us or to teach us. There are many paths up the mountain for sure. There are many crossroads in life. Life’s crossroads are often [...]
Filed under Soul Thought of The Day · Tagged with believe, bpd, care, choose wisely, codependent, crossroads, dare to cry, dare to feel, dark night of the soul, enmeshement, have faith, heal, journey, love, npd, recovery, shame, weep
Posted by A.J. Mahari on November 30, 2007 · 2 Comments
When someone tells you who they are, believe them. What is often not thought about in the arena of human life is that for all of the ability we have to think, feel, and perceive that may set us apart from other animals, we are after all still animals. We, like other animals do, have [...]
Filed under Mental Health · Tagged with aj mahari, alcoholism, betrayal bonds, borderline, bpd, codependence, domestic violence, enmeshement, lies, lying, manipulation, Mental Illness, narcissism, npd, personal responsibilty, personality disorders, toxic people, toxic relationships, trauma bonds, verbal abuse, victim, victimization
Posted by A.J. Mahari on September 13, 2007 · Leave a Comment
More often than not what sustains the foundation of toxic relating inside of a person is a personality disorder or some other form of mental illness. Borderline Personality and Narcissistic Personality Disorder are the two most common sources of toxic and abusive relating. Both personality disorders seem to be on the increase. We also seem to be living in what are very narcissistic times.
Toxic relationships are everything that defies the word relationship. They are not about love – they are about relationship addiction – being addicted to chaos, drama and/or the other person. They are not desirable. They are painful. They are compelling in that given certain unresolved emotional issues from childhood, adults frankly get addicted to toxic relational schema. These toxic relationships are the vehicles of verbal abuse, physical abuse, and often domestic violence.
Filed under Personal Growth · Tagged with Abuse, abusive, borderline, bpd, break free from toxic relating, codependency, codependent, domestic violence, enmeshement, letting go, narcissism, narcissistic, npd, personality disorders, relationship addiction, toxic, toxic relationships, verbal abuse
