Finding Out What You Need
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Finding out what you need may sound like a simple thing. However, if you really stop to think about it, you may discover that there are times when you really don’t know what you want, let alone what you need.
Finding out what you need means there are times when you will have to endure not having what you need. We all have to endure times when there is struggle or challenge to finding what it is that we really need in a given time or situation in our lives.
There are so many choices and decisions to make in life. Some are big ones and some not so big. Some will prove to be wise and helpful – good choices and decisions – and some will prove to be less wise and perhaps in some ways unhelpful – poorer or incorrect choices and decisions that will no doubt teach us something about ourselves we need to know whether we want to know it or not.
The thing about this reality is that the lessons that our not making the choices or decisions that worked in terms of what we may have actually needed are not mistakes but teachers of important lessons.
It can be very difficult in the face of the consequences of less than satisfying choices and decisions to not be critical, judgemental, and/or hard on ourselves. It is so important to radically accept any situation that is created wherein you learn that a choice or decision that you made didn’t end up serving you well or didn’t end up being the best for you.
Learning and finding out what you need involves faith, trusting yourself to find your way and means that you need to choose to be open to the process of trial and error and the lessons that life seeks to teach.
Finding out what you need is an on-going process in life. It is a process that we need to be patient with. It is a process that often means sorting out the difference between what you believe you want and what you actually need.
© A.J. Mahari
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