Brother To Brother
After one son's suicide, Les Franklin turned
grief into civic action. Then tragedy struck again
BY RITA HEALY/DENVER
Few things could stop Les Franklin. Born into
poverty, he was offered an athletic scholarship,
got a business degree and became a key executive
for IBM in Boulder, Colo. He bought a dream home
in a mostly white, gated community, worked for
the Governor and even ran for Congress. In 1990
tragedy struck, when his 16-year-old son Shaka
shot himself to death. But Franklin did not let
grief paralyze him. He founded the Shaka Franklin
Foundation for Youth, dedicated to the prevention
of youth suicide. Through it, Franklin, 61,
became an even more prominent presence in Colorado.
His fund raisers drew donations from the Denver
Broncos, Coors, Norwest Bank, Texaco and Conoco.
The half-million-dollar foundation is developing
recording studios, a 240-acre mountain retreat,
a computer lab for kids who are at risk and a
hockey arena. "Les' program is very successful,"
says Dar Emme, founder of the Yellow Ribbon
Suicide Prevention Program in Westminster, Colo.
"Taking the grief of losing a child and turning
it into something positive is absolutely wonderful."
Then, three weeks ago, Franklin's other son, Jamon,
killed himself.
Jamon, 31, had worked for the foundation, driving
kids to activities, helping them with their
computers, their ice skates and their recording
projects. But his behavior at home worried his
father. "I knew he was depressed," says Les. "He'd
sleep for a week. And then he was like a Ninja
warrior, moving silently around the house, coming
out at night to eat. I'd smell the food." Franklin
says he left his son notes saying he loved him,
but Jamon refused antidepressant medication,
assuring his father that he would never follow
his brother's path.
On Aug. 14, Les and his wife Marianne returned
from a trip to Europe to discover a sickly sweet
smell permeating their home. Then Les found the
source: Jamon's decomposing body in the backseat
of a restored Cadillac in the attached four-car
garage. Jamon had apparently suffocated himself
with carbon-monoxide fumes.
When Shaka shot himself, Franklin had been stunned.
"I didn't think black people killed themselves. I
thought it was a white man's disease." Shaka had
been a football star at the local high school. But
sidelined with an injury, he began to worry about
his mother Cherilyn, who was divorced from Les and
would die of cancer in 1991. On Oct. 19, 1990, Shaka
picked up his father's pistol and killed himself in
a bedroom of the Franklins' dream house.
Jamon's death, however, has made Franklin furious.
"I know he never got over his brother's death, his
baby brother, six years apart," Les told TIME
shortly after discovering Jamon's body. "But he
promised me that he'd never hurt me the way his
brother hurt me, and in the final analysis he broke
his promise, and I'm very angry." He adds, "There
will be no Jamon's place. Shaka was 16; he was a
baby. Jamon was a 31-year-old man. I'm not going
to give him that. He knew I loved him. He made a
horrible, horrible decision."
Les Franklin suspects his divorce hit his kids hard.
But he also sees a genetic component in depression.
He has heard that his father, with whom he has no
ties, once attempted to kill himself, but it never
registered until now. Depression never held back
Les Franklin during his climb out of poverty. "Did
Jamon have it hard?" he asks rhetorically. "Come
on, look at this house! I was an IBM executive!
And now I'm concerned about affluent black kids.
There are the same patterns you see in the white
community; they have more idle time, more time to
think. I don't know too many gang members who kill
themselves. They kill you."
Les will remain the Shaka Franklin Foundation's
chairman, but he is putting aside his work in
suicide prevention. For the first time in his
life, he feels defeated. He is also selling the
home he worked so hard to build. "My two kids
died 25 ft. apart, one in the bedroom and one in
the garage. We thought it was our dream house,
but it holds only sad, sad, hard memories."
"I thought I was a decent father," he says in the
house where the smell of death still lingers.
"I've cried so hard my face hurts." And yet
something within him still grasps at a solution.
"Somehow we've got to bring happiness back onto
the planet so that people will want to live..."
He reaches for a more precise word. "So that
children will want to live."